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Sunday, January 5, 2014

What do I do? Helpful Tips

**POSITIVE PRAISE; BUILD ON SUCCESS**

Structure:
all kids raise hand before any comment or question (enforced/re-do)
Consistent Routine/Predictable
simply keeping the order of doing things consistent.

Supervision (emotional age)
teacher sit by him (doesn't like sitting on the end)
a child that's a good example on the other side of him
after class time, wait 'til adult picks him up

Anxiety
Prayer or read scripture in class/ talk or scripture in sharing time: always ask. If no, 'that's OK. When you're ready for that, you'll do it.'

Concrete
he takes things very literal. Doesn't get abstract or sarcasm

Learns by Repetition and Very Visual
(can remember things best when related to something visual)
good visual memory (poor working memory/auditory

“Listening tool”:
-rope puzzle
-clay

*Tone
*Body Language
*less words

Things that help him de-escalate:
quiet, quiet voice, eye contact, confidence (positive praise, build on success), clear simple directives, quiet melodic words, gentle tone of voice, music

Things that help him escalate:
poking, noise, too much talking, chaos in class, frustration, anxiety, communicating from a distance with no eye contact, complex directives, too many directives at once, ultimatums, raised voice, shaking finger, harsh tone of voice, threats.


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